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sovay ([personal profile] sovay) wrote2025-03-28 09:03 am

The sea's gone from grey-green to a thick blue now

My brother's godfather has died. He was a geologist married to a botanist, for half my life in Colorado, the other half in Arizona, their house a triple-stacked library of speculative fiction in my childhood and in their retirement filled with the art the two of them made. With the U.S. Army Corps of Engineers, with the Bureau of Reclamation, as a citizen scientist and volunteer on the San Pedro River and Ramsey Canyon Preserve, his specialty was rivers, aquifers, water in the earth. He had built dams and blown them. He cared ferociously about conservation. I walked above the treeline in the Rockies with him; I saw the most stars I have ever seen in a night. Once as a child, I didn't recognize him at the door because he had traded his badger-beard for a ponytail, which eventually he traded back. Famously, the family story went, after getting his advanced degree, he was so unemployable with it that he ran for dogcatcher and lost to a zoologist who was in much the same position. I have a scan of a sun-blown slide from the middle of the 1980's where, a long lean hiker in blue jeans and a Christmas-plaid shirt, aviator sunglasses and a bucket hat decorated all over with the logo for Miller High Life, he is toting my infant brother across some high country on his back. He told me never to let the Puritan work ethic catch up with my art. I have photographs of his right up until this last year. He was not replaceable in the world.
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[personal profile] larryhammer 2025-03-28 02:38 pm (UTC)(link)
May his memory be a blessing.

The San Pedro River people and Ramsey Canyon Preserve are doing good work.
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[personal profile] aurumcalendula 2025-03-28 02:40 pm (UTC)(link)
May his memory be a blessing.
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[personal profile] princessofgeeks 2025-03-28 03:01 pm (UTC)(link)
I am so sorry.
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[personal profile] lauradi7dw 2025-03-28 03:29 pm (UTC)(link)
His memory for a blessing.
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[personal profile] umadoshi 2025-03-28 03:58 pm (UTC)(link)
I'm so sorry. He sounds like an excellent person. *hugs*
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[personal profile] sartorias 2025-03-28 03:59 pm (UTC)(link)
His memory for a blessing.
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[personal profile] troisoiseaux 2025-03-28 04:02 pm (UTC)(link)
His memory for a blessing.
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[personal profile] mrissa 2025-03-28 04:34 pm (UTC)(link)
He was not replaceable in the world.

Indeed not, and I'm so sorry.
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[personal profile] radiantfracture 2025-03-28 05:32 pm (UTC)(link)
I am sorry. He sounds like a brilliant presence. I'm glad he was part of your life for so long.
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[personal profile] moon_custafer 2025-03-28 05:35 pm (UTC)(link)
All sympathies.

he was so unemployable with it that he ran for dogcatcher and lost to a zoologist who was in much the same position.

Well, for that line of work, a zoologist would arguably have an advantage over a geologist.
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[personal profile] moon_custafer 2025-03-28 11:34 pm (UTC)(link)
You’d think the pet-rock fad would have led to a feral-rock problem.
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[personal profile] thistleingrey 2025-03-28 05:36 pm (UTC)(link)
He told me never to let the Puritan work ethic catch up with my art.

That is sound advice.
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[personal profile] julian 2025-03-28 06:09 pm (UTC)(link)
Well, shit.

My sympathies, and I'm glad you had the times with him you did, even if they aren't enough and both you and the world still want him. His memory for a blessing.
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[personal profile] gwynnega 2025-03-28 06:25 pm (UTC)(link)
His memory for a blessing.
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[personal profile] gullyfoyle 2025-03-28 06:32 pm (UTC)(link)
My condolences. Your memories prove that he's not completely gone.
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[personal profile] selkie 2025-03-28 07:02 pm (UTC)(link)
May his memory be for a blessing, and may he go exactly where he wants to go. Di shviger sent a little broken heart and an orange unbroken one, like sunrise or sunset for the digital communication age. *hugs*
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[personal profile] ashlyme 2025-03-28 08:10 pm (UTC)(link)
Condolences and *hugs*.
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[personal profile] sabotabby 2025-03-28 10:21 pm (UTC)(link)
May his memory be a blessing.
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[personal profile] minoanmiss 2025-03-29 12:44 am (UTC)(link)

Hhe sound n magnificent. I send you all my condolences.

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[personal profile] yarrowkat 2025-03-29 05:39 am (UTC)(link)
this is a lovely vivid set of memories of him. i feel like i can see him. may his memory be a blessing.
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[personal profile] nineweaving 2025-03-29 09:10 am (UTC)(link)
The world has lost a guardian. His memory for a blessing.

*hugs*

Nine
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[personal profile] yhlee 2025-03-30 05:08 am (UTC)(link)
I'm so sorry.
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[personal profile] asakiyume 2025-03-30 04:36 pm (UTC)(link)
I think it's wonderful that you walked the treeline of the Rockies with your grandfather--what shared experience. And that was very good advice he gave you about your art and the Puritan work ethic.

I am sorry for your loss and rejoice that you each had the other in your lives.
Edited (grammar! (I think?)) 2025-03-30 16:37 (UTC)