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sovay ([personal profile] sovay) wrote2021-08-09 06:01 pm

I built the sea, not the boat you're in

I could have sworn I owned Mo Moulton's The Mutual Admiration Society: How Dorothy L. Sayers and Her Oxford Circle Remade the World for Women (2019) and it is driving me up the wall that if so I can't find it, because I have been noodling on and off at the question of Sayers and queerness ever since discovering that she was published in the sole issue of The Quorum: A Magazine of Friendship (1920) and in the process of confirming the co-authorship of the original 1936 stage version of Busman's Honeymoon with Muriel St. Clare Byrne, I was presented with this gem from its pages:

Reading both Gaudy Night and Busman's Honeymoon as the product of collaboration between DLS, Bar, and Muriel changes the texts. It's clear, for one thing, that Lord Peter Wimsey and Harriet Vane as characters are not just ego projections on DLS's part. They are also composite portraits, capturing the conversations she had with Muriel and Bar about relationships and love and work. In a sense, Muriel and Bar become alternate models for Harriet and Peter. There's Muriel, with her curly blond hair, her scattershot brilliance, and her moods; there is Bar, with her grounded intelligence, her dark-haired comeliness, and her ruby cabochon ring, exactly like the ring Peter gives Harriet in Busman's Honeymoon. Bar's students passed along a rumor that she'd been given the ring by a fiancé who had died in the war, but this is probably mixing two things up. Bar's brother, Graham, was killed leading his company into action in August 1918. It would be reasonable to imagine that the ring, meanwhile, was a gift from Muriel, a 'fiancé' who was invisible because of her sex, not her death.

"Bar" is Marjorie Barber, Byrne's life partner. Modeling an ideal het relationship at least partly on a successful queer one is a deeply appealing idea and I'd love to be able to see if it's supported by the rest of the biography, which doesn't seem to be in my possession. I can't have lent it to someone. I didn't think the pandemic had been so dreadful as to make books simply evaporate. [edit] And now the penny's dropped that the same author was responsible for the magnificent "On Harriet Vane and Lord Peter Wimsey: An Essay with Personal Interruptions" (2014), I'm really bitter.

[edit edit] I am beginning to think Marblehead these days is permanently overcast: "If we disagree, we'll fight it out like gentlemen. We won't stand for matrimonial blackmail."
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[personal profile] starlady 2021-08-09 10:55 pm (UTC)(link)
I can't remember how obvious it is in the text of the novel, but Strong Poison shows that Harriet has lesbian friends; even there queerness is shown as a model, or an influence, for what to want out of a het partnership. It doesn't surprise me that DLS's eventual marriage wound up unhappy.
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[personal profile] starlady 2021-08-09 11:34 pm (UTC)(link)
I haven't read the biography but every account I've read suggests that her husband eventually wound up resenting her literary success. Which really is unfortunate.

I got distracted by everything else in Unnatural Death, but that's another good point about Agatha and Clara!
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[personal profile] legionseagle 2021-08-10 06:07 am (UTC)(link)
I believe Mac Fleming had PTSD or something similar as a result of his war experiences (or perhaps the aftermath of poison gas?) and that also he got worse as he got older: there's a letter where Sayers says something like "Mac gets more and more queer, one doesn't like to leave him."

I was lucky enough to attend a talk by Mo Moulton at the Manchester Jewish Museum (in its temporary quarters in the library basement - they've got a lottery grant and are doing a big refurb of the Cheetham Hill building) on aspects of the book, specifically, given the venue, Charis Frankenburg who basically was doing revolutionary things with childcare, midwifery and birth control while using her social position to fly under the radar with them.
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[personal profile] ethelmay 2021-08-10 02:55 am (UTC)(link)
I did pick up on Agatha Dawson and Clara Whittaker, I am pretty sure. I remember wondering if Sayers thought lesbianism was something that ran in families. But it was probably much more recently that it occurred to me that the "unnatural" in the title might also be a reference to relationships being called "unnatural." "And besides this, Miss Climpson felt sure that Vera Findlater was being “preyed upon,” as she expressed it to herself, by the handsome Mary Whittaker. “It would be a mercy for the girl,” thought Miss Climpson, “if she could form a genuine attachment to a young man. It is natural for a schoolgirl to be schwärmerisch—in a young woman of twenty-two it is thoroughly undesirable. ... “Love is always good, when it’s the right kind,” agreed Miss Climpson, “but I don’t think it ought to be too possessive. One has to train oneself—” she hesitated, and went on courageously—“and in any case, my dear, I cannot help feeling that it is more natural—more proper, in a sense—for a man and woman to be all in all to one another than for two persons of the same sex. Er—after all, it is a—a fruitful affection,” said Miss Climpson, boggling a trifle at this idea, “and—and all that, you know, and I am sure that when the right MAN comes along for you—”"
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[personal profile] vass 2021-08-10 05:28 am (UTC)(link)
I can't remember Agatha Dawson and Clara Whittaker, but I very much do remember the Miss Climpson bits you're quoting, and being upset by them and the title, which I interpreted the same way. (There's another passage where she calls it "silly schwärmerei".)

Seeing it just now, I'm wondering for the first time if Miss Climpson is actually a deeply closeted, excruciatingly Anglo-Catholic woman who denied all her own chances for happiness in favour of waiting around for the right MAN for her, who never came because "the right" and "man" were for her an oxymoron.
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The scare quotes struggle to contain what is between them

[personal profile] vass 2021-08-10 10:13 am (UTC)(link)
If we assume that the victim was one and the murderer another, that leaves only the investigator as the third.

Hmm. Do the victim and murder happen to fit the invert/pervert paradigm that was going around then? I guess they wouldn't, if they were the same social class. But if they did, it'd be three different models of a spinster: one by birth (the "invert", born this way and can't help it, nobly suffering), one by "choice" (the "pervert", capable of "normal" desire but basely choosing to take advantage of the usually-aristocratic "invert"'s "affliction" instead of choosing heterosexual marriage as God intended), and one purely by chance (Miss Climpson, ending up "on the shelf" through neither "defect" (inversion) nor "fault" (perversion) of her own.) So the working title wouldn't require her to be a closeted lesbian herself.

Edit: I've read the quoted passage now, and wow, yes. Back in my teens I always thought the italics etc were just meant to indicate how fluffy Miss Climpson was. But they're carrying a lot more freight than I understood back then!
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[personal profile] tree_and_leaf 2021-08-10 02:17 pm (UTC)(link)
Miss Climpson shares her author's faith, but I don't think that means that all her views are Sayers's.
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[personal profile] tree_and_leaf 2021-08-10 06:59 pm (UTC)(link)
And I certainly don't think that we're supposed to see the Dawson/ Whittaker partnership as unnatural. I don't have a copy handy, but doesn't the old man who tells Peter and Charles about them muse that he knew a mare who could never be brought to mate with a stallion, in a completely non-judgemental manner, and admiring of Miss Whittaker's business sense? He seems to view it as perfectly natural - unusual, but well within the bounds of nature.

ETA: found it online. Not a mare, but a terrier. The bloke concludes: "‘The Lord makes a few of them that way to suit ’Is own purposes, I suppose.'"
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[personal profile] tree_and_leaf 2021-08-10 08:05 pm (UTC)(link)
Oh, I didn't realise it was on Faded Page! Excellent.
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[personal profile] ethelmay 2021-08-11 02:59 am (UTC)(link)
It depends - Sayers did have various odd-to-my-way-of-thinking views about sex, which don't fit neatly into modern categories. That letter about it being the business of the "bedworthy" man to make sure that "a good time should be had by all," for instance. Harriet saying "obey" for another. (Hell, Laura Ingalls Wilder didn't say "obey"!) And the "masterful" man is contrasted with one who is clearly overmastered by his wife, not one who is egalitarian.
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[personal profile] tree_and_leaf 2021-08-11 04:53 pm (UTC)(link)
I don't know if Sayers was lesbian, or bi, but I'm pretty sure she liked being submissive in the bedroom. Look at the dog collar stuff in Gaudy Night. (Mind you, I'm not sure if Harriet would have been so keen to say 'obey' if Peter hadn't shown his support for her independence across the board - and I recall Peter wasn't keen on 'obey').
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[personal profile] legionseagle 2021-08-13 08:04 am (UTC)(link)
At this point, and apologies to [personal profile] tree_and_leaf who has probably heard this one from me several times already, I have the oblg! rant about the Established Church, consequential interference of the Houses of Parliament in prayer book reform (see here .) That is, Laura Ingalls Wilder might have had her problems like bears, scarlet fever, locusts and being a racist git edited by a libertarian racist git, but at least she didn't have to contend with the Houses of Parliament. Which meant that whenever the Church had got round to deciding that yes, actually, "obey" was a bit anachronistic*, the whole might of the Rural Members would rise up and either argue that it was going to led to self-flagellation before statues of the Virgin Mary erected in St Paul's or that it would end up giving handles to the Non-Conformists. Hence the Prayer Book never got itself reformed, and priests offering the bride the option were technically out of line.


*My objection to "obey" isn't just that but that the whole might of the Law of England was for half a millennium hell-bent on enforcing a woman's marriage oath with the full weight of its power, up to and including forcing her to have sex with a husband knowingly infected with active communicable syphilis, whereas the same legal might was equally hell-bent on removing any splinter of truth from the husband's promise to "endow" and protecting his property against the wife's claims come what may.
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[personal profile] ethelmay 2021-08-15 12:24 am (UTC)(link)
That's fascinating. I had assumed Helen Wimsey's surprise at Harriet saying "obey" implied that people in Helen's circles mostly didn't by then. But perhaps she just thought of Harriet as being the sort of person who wouldn't, and would have gotten in a dig at her either way - rather like someone in the hippie era being faux-astonished that a young woman wore a bra and shaved her legs for her wedding day.
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[personal profile] legionseagle 2021-08-15 06:41 am (UTC)(link)
Talking about Helen's circles, there was an absolutely idiotic fuss that Kate Middleton didn't, only ten years ago (it seems from the attached that Diana didn't in 1981, either, but it's interesting that it was still newsworthy in 2011.)

Now you mention it, it sounds exactly what you suggest. The bit Helen is genuinely squeamish about in the traditional prayer book is the stuff which is more 17th century frank than early 20th century prudish about sex. I think the "obey" business is her having a go at Harriet.
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[personal profile] legionseagle 2021-08-10 06:23 am (UTC)(link)
I'm never all that sure Mary Whitaker is a lesbian; I think there's a good argument that she's ace (see Wimsey's response to her: "curiously sexless".) She certainly never has any genuine affection for Vera Findlater; it's an abusive and exploitative relationship from the get-go.
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[personal profile] legionseagle 2021-08-10 12:29 pm (UTC)(link)
The Clemence Dane reference is a big shoutout, agreed, as is Miss Climpson's reflection that she's seen the pattern play out before many times in girls' schools and boarding houses. But every time I re-read Unnatural Death I keep being struck by how the entire book depends on people forming opinions of Mary Whitaker at one or more removes; Parker and Wimsey meet her in her Mrs Forester persona only, until the denoument; Miss Climpson, I believe, meets her precisely once, after which it's all the reported testimony of Vera Findlater, and then everything else is other people's impressions of her: the Gotobeds, the Country Lawyer, the Town Lawyer and so forth. And she's almost always acting a part. She gives herself away to Wimsey because she doesn't have the knowledge base to bring off that specific part, but she has everyone including Vera and Miss Climpson fooled, right up to the end.
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[personal profile] tree_and_leaf 2021-08-10 02:12 pm (UTC)(link)
I do think it's interesting that, when writing an Evil Lesbian Killer (TM), Sayers made sure she put a functional, apparently very happy lesbian couple in, even if it was in the past.

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[personal profile] tree_and_leaf 2021-08-10 08:06 pm (UTC)(link)
Predatory Mary Whittaker really begins to look like the outlier in this sample set. She should perhaps be classed more usefully with all the men in Sayers' novels who exploit women, from Dr. Penberthy to Philip Boyes to Frank Crutchley and undoubtedly some others I'm forgetting.

Yes, I think that's right - as is your conclusion. The "Dead Sea apples" is a reference I don't recognise, but it's a strong and significant one, and it seems to me significant that it ends up being applied to heterosexual failure, too.
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[personal profile] tree_and_leaf 2021-08-10 08:11 pm (UTC)(link)
Oh Lord, I've just googled it, and it's a fruit of Sodom.

But of course - given its final transference to Philip and Harriet - Sayers probably knew that "sodomy" can also be applied, as a category, to sex between men and women.
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[personal profile] selkie 2021-08-10 12:37 am (UTC)(link)
Here, have a lemon.
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[personal profile] lauradi7dw 2021-08-10 01:43 am (UTC)(link)
We have a copy, if you need a loan.
Also, even if you've never see "Downtown Abbey," it's worth reading all of Mo's historian companion pieces.
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[personal profile] lauradi7dw 2021-08-10 03:02 am (UTC)(link)
Yes, through bellringing.
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[personal profile] skygiants 2021-08-10 02:55 am (UTC)(link)
Let me know if it still fails to turn up; it's absolutely a book that you should own and I believe we might have a copy to pass on!
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[personal profile] gwynnega 2021-08-10 02:59 am (UTC)(link)
I hope that book turns up!
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[personal profile] oracne 2021-08-10 12:05 pm (UTC)(link)
OOH!!!

I wonder if they show up in Peter's Bohemian Friends?
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[personal profile] oracne 2021-08-10 08:01 pm (UTC)(link)
I always wanted more about them.
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[personal profile] oracne 2021-08-10 08:05 pm (UTC)(link)
There's a thought!!! And they would be perfect for a Kalikoi project. I even have a great book about post-WWI English women (SINGLED OUT) that might be useful...hmmm.
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[personal profile] ethelmay 2021-08-15 12:54 am (UTC)(link)
Dang it. I misread this and thought there was a fic called "Peter's Bohemian Friends." Oh, well, I am sure there is Sylvia and Eiluned fic I haven't read. (Also it occurs to me to wonder if anyone has done a Wimsey-Oxenham crossover. I am sure Sylvia and Eiluned knew some people who were trotting round to the folk-dancing classes.)