Thank you for not taking it as a personal reprimand or something! I am a very reactionary human who leans away from erring conservative, because orthopraxists and I often have many, many other things to hiss and bite about; but I mean well and it was clear you did, too. Always happy to run my mouth for others' benefit.

(The pandemic has, alas, cut way down on my antagonizing of my frum, male co-religionists when they ask me at the subway station if I'm Jewish. I don't know what I'll take up for sport if we can't use public transit when we go back...)