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sovay ([personal profile] sovay) wrote2020-04-04 05:43 pm

For when one of us goes on the job, the other hits the hay

I hate wearing masks. I have done it before for medical and other protective reasons, but it sets off some of the same sensory issues as certain textures or kinds of touch and a substrate of my brain just screams chokingly at me the entire time that we can't deal with these sensations and my face needs to be clear now now now now now. I have never even covered my mouth with scarves in winter. At the end of these three or six or nine months, I am either going to be amazingly desensitized or no one is ever going to be able to touch my face again. So I hope the entire goddamn Commonwealth appreciates my sacrifice and also check out these cherry blossoms.



I saw a red-tailed hawk, too, but could not successfully photograph it on either of its perches on the cross-tree of the telephone pole or the corner of the Litchfield Block.

I have a new go-to quote every time I hear that the man in the White House has said anything at all, courtesy of George S. Kaufman and Moss Hart's "The Paperhanger," written for the American Theatre Wing's Lunchtime Follies c. 1942–45: "Isn't it wonderful how they always believe me? It's not as though I kept it a secret—I come right out and tell them what I'm going to do. They just can't believe that anyone can be as big a bastard as I am. You know, you can't tell how far a fellow could go, with a nature like mine."
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[personal profile] a_reasonable_man 2020-04-04 10:10 pm (UTC)(link)
The picture is beautiful, and the quotation apt. Together, they are sweet and tart.

When I hear the occupant of the White House, I myself tend to think of a quotation from the late president of Fredonia: "Who are you going to believe, me or your own eyes?"
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[personal profile] cynthia1960 2020-04-04 10:23 pm (UTC)(link)
That is an unfortunately apt quote.
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[personal profile] nineweaving 2020-04-04 10:33 pm (UTC)(link)
Kaufman and Hart knew their bastards.

The blossom is gorgeous!

Nine
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[personal profile] lauradi7dw 2020-04-04 11:02 pm (UTC)(link)
Tomorrow was supposed to be the Cherry Blossom Festival 10 mile race in DC. Nope.

I run and walk outside unmasked and do my darnedest to stay twelve feet away from other folks, usually across the street. I appreciate your sacrifice. I was furious this afternoon when we walked near the Lexington soccer fields and counted almost thirty people spread across two of the fields (we stayed on the Temple side of the street). I am making a mask tonight to wear to get curbside bagel pickup tomorrow.

Iago was like that. It kind of makes the audience into accomplices.
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[personal profile] pameladean 2020-04-05 12:34 am (UTC)(link)
I have trouble wearing anything on my face as well. My brain is persuaded that I can't breathe even though I show it that I can. Brains. What are you gonna do? Can't live with them, can't have them removed.

P.
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[personal profile] pameladean 2020-04-05 12:50 am (UTC)(link)
Embodied existence is over-rated.

Well, except for -- all right, never mind.

I am reminded of a conversation I just had with Lydy about Nuit. The latter was being extremely sweet and mellow, lying around asking to have her belly rubbed and squinching up her little pointy face in contentment and being all lovey, and Lydy said, "She's a very good girl, except when she is absolutely terrible."

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[personal profile] gwynnega 2020-04-05 01:27 am (UTC)(link)
I have a very hard time with masks too. They make me feel like I'm suffocating. I hope I can get used to them, but mostly I'm staying home as much as possible.
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[personal profile] pameladean 2020-04-05 02:17 am (UTC)(link)
I understand the relevance of this anecdote, but also: good cat! (As I type, Autolycus has fallen asleep on my wrist, pinning me to the keyboard.)

Oh, also good cat! I am glad we both have good cats to do what is necessary.

P.
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[personal profile] kore 2020-04-05 02:19 am (UTC)(link)
Yeah, I CANNOT DEAL with having anything on my face, or around my neck -- and anything that feels like it is impeding my breathing makes me really panicky. (The reason I can't do CPAP is it sets off panic attacks and also, when I tried it, I woke up having struggled out of the mask and straps in my sleep and it was on the floor.) I don't go outside that much anyway. I'm hoping double folded and tucked-in bandanas will not make me panicky if I do. :-/
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[personal profile] phi 2020-04-05 02:30 am (UTC)(link)
I've been frequently recalling the scene where the smiler tells Spider who he really is in Transmetropolitan: "I hate you all, you know, all you scum. I want to be president because I hate you. I want to fuck with you."

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[personal profile] phi 2020-04-05 02:36 am (UTC)(link)
In brighter news, I keep pointing out the cherry blossoms to Mr 2 when we go out for walks, and I tell him about how in Japan, we called them "sakura" and the art of looking at sakura is "hanami" and there are even big parties called "matsuri" for the purpose of hanami. And then he looks up at me and says a string of words that I can only assume is Mandarin, because the last thing they learned in daycare before the center closed for the plague was about cherry blossoms. And it makes me happy to have this multi cultural, multi linguistic moment with him even if I don't have a blessed clue what he's actually saying.

(For other readers who don't know me: my child goes to a Mandarin immersion daycare even though no one in our family on either side speaks it, because language learning is important to me and that's the language that was on offer in our neighborhood and with an open seat at the right time. I myself was sent to a French immersion daycare and kindergarten in my time for the same reason. I do speak Japanese, although it's rusty, and lived in Japan for a time -- not teaching English!)
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[personal profile] julian 2020-04-05 05:37 am (UTC)(link)
Thank you for the tree.

And, yes me too on masks. Gnar. (I mean. I'll cope. But gnar.)
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[personal profile] mrissa 2020-04-05 11:17 am (UTC)(link)
My father once calculated that even if you were 99% good, that would leave you about 15 minutes in the day (14.4) to be awful. And hardly any of us is 99% good. You can be terrible for a solid 72 minutes and still be 95% good, which when you think about it is more good than you would estimate most people to be if you were just grasping for a number.

I think this probably means something about how good, as a percentage, this year is, but I don't know what yet. Mostly I know about dogs, cats, small children and their goodness percentile.
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[personal profile] asakiyume 2020-04-05 12:17 pm (UTC)(link)
I find birds impossible to photograph satisfactorily! But I know many other people do manage it.

The blossoms are beautiful, and from a distance, when I first open Dreamwidth, they look like pink lilacs (though I know they're not).

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[personal profile] thisbluespirit 2020-04-05 12:20 pm (UTC)(link)
♥ You're being heroic and we appreciate it, anyway.

The blossom pic is gorgeous!
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[personal profile] cmcmck 2020-04-05 12:23 pm (UTC)(link)
Our own cherry tree is a white flowering variety and the bees have been very busy! :o)
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[personal profile] lauradi7dw 2020-04-05 01:47 pm (UTC)(link)
The Boston Marathon has been re-scheduled for September 14th. A very different training season, but we might get more elite runners, since the Olympics have been postponed until summer 2021. No other Patriot's Day stuff, though. It will be weird in Lexington, and the Lanterns commemoration at Old North is still vague - it's the historic site's main fundraiser of the year.

Wicked Bagel does a good job. It also didn't require a mask. We called ahead with our order, paid with credit card on the phone, and called from the car when we parked. The worker came out and put the bagels in the trunk, so we never had close contact with anybody. I would think that for people without a car, they could leave the bag on the sidewalk, to be picked up and carried away. When we got home, we decanted the bagels from their bag to some bags of our own, did extensive hand washing, etc. Their bag did not come into our house. I did use the mask for Trader Joe's, and may post about that.
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[personal profile] asakiyume 2020-04-05 04:57 pm (UTC)(link)
I am just at the moment feeling slightly bitter toward digital I hear you!

Man, I wanted to visit the Arboretum this spring. Maybe I can walk there, if they don't close it.
I hope they leave it open. They should leave open places where people can walk widely spaced, because all of us cooped up isn't healthy either.
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[personal profile] cmcmck 2020-04-05 05:22 pm (UTC)(link)
Your wish is my command! :o)

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[personal profile] coraline 2020-04-05 05:43 pm (UTC)(link)
I deeply feel you on the masks. Probably not as bad as a reaction as you but I definitely have an immediate "get it off get it off" and a creeping headache both of which just get worse over time. *sigh*
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[personal profile] pameladean 2020-04-05 06:30 pm (UTC)(link)
I love this story but the implications are terrifying.

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