If any of that seems particularly like or unlike what you're looking for, point me in a direction and I might be able to dig up more.

These are very much the sort of links I was looking for; thank you! Both derspatchel and I have been making a lot of these points in conversation, but it helps to have supporting literature (and also a lot of points we didn't make).

[edit] I knew of Writing the Other, but I think now I would like to encourage this group to purchase a copy; it looks practical as well as thoughtful and well-argued.