sovay: (Lord Peter Wimsey: passion)
sovay ([personal profile] sovay) wrote2011-09-13 06:32 pm

It's fascinating to observe what the mirror does

This time last year, [livejournal.com profile] rushthatspeaks and I were in Providence for one of the most bipolar weekends either of us can still remember, split between highs like Myopic Books, Lovecraft's grave, and the bathroom at Julian's and lows like attending a funeral in company of Rush's mother.

I am pleased to report that for our first anniversary, we have managed to avoid all but an e-mail from said mother and absolutely no funerals were involved.

Due to weather/transit shenanigans on the part of New York City, Rush arrived several hours later on Thursday than planned, so that night we mostly ate mlukhieh from Garlic 'n' Lemons and passed out, but on Friday we got up and went out to procure Rush new shoes; adding to the shenanigans, the Tevas had bought it in New York. You must understand that both of us hate clothes shopping, of which shoe shopping is the most pernicious expression, so a lot of this process was indistinguishable from walking into Central Square, being distracted en route by savory BerryLine flavors (honey lavender, lemon basil), cheaply priced used Robertson Davies (Happy Alchemy (1997), although ultimately we left it for the next passerby), and free samples from Follow the Honey, a hitherto undiscovered honey store on Mass. Ave. ([livejournal.com profile] tithenai, when you visit, try the avocado blossom; [livejournal.com profile] cucumberseed, they sell killer bee), but it got us to Payless, where we were only mildly traumatized by some of the things American women are expected to put on their feet, and I got some kind of cranberry hibiscus iced thing from 1369 on our way back that almost staved off the total stamina crash later that evening. Dinner was that combination of sandwiches and leftovers that happens when you're too tired to cook, but you'll be more tired if you don't eat. I showed Rush the first two episodes of the BBC's Tinker, Tailor, Soldier, Spy (1979). We curled up.

Saturday was the Readercon debrief at noon, and thereafter a lovely day. I had never been to Inman Oasis; we got half an hour in the wooden hot tub, which Rush tells me is very much like a traditional Japanese onsen except for the privacy. I felt better afterward. That hasn't happened a lot lately. We found the used book store that turned out to be Lorem Ipsum, but first we found a spray-painted graffito of a wolf eating the sun. It was less than five minutes' walk to Bosphorus, where we are resolved to reverse-engineer their manti the next time we feel like making dumplings and the hünkar beğendi was possibly the best eggplant either of us has eaten. Also it is a truism that anything is good with pan-fried halloumi, but there is no reason that pickled okra should have been delicious. We even made it back to Davis Square in time for the curtain of Theatre@First's As You Like It, but the combination of nowhere to sit and smokers in the audience eventually inclined us to repair to the Diesel and then home for the next installment of Tinker, Tailor. The dogfight that broke out behind us was rather authentically Elizabethan, though.

I read Shirley Jackson's The Haunting of Hill House (1959), which Rush gave me. It is a masterpiece.

On Sunday we saw Amos Poe and Ivan Kral's The Blank Generation (1976) at the Harvard Film Archive, which really deserves a post of its own. Black-and-white concert footage from CBGB's, all songs deliberately out of synch; I wish the soundtrack were available, since it seems to have furnished my favorite version of "Psycho Killer," Stop Making Sense included. Baby David Byrne: my God, adorable. Jayne County when she was still Wayne, with fishnets and a toilet plunger. Television and the Heartbreakers. I'd never even heard of the Miamis, the Marbles, or the Shirts. In the spring of 2005, Rush sent me Horses (1975) via YouSendIt, because I had no Patti Smith: the first thing you hear in The Blank Generation is "Gloria." On all points, it was the correct movie for us to see this weekend. And yesterday we had planned to go to the MFA, but instead we found Summer Wars (2009) at the Arlington Library and the obvious course of the evening was to watch it with pizza and later ice cream, which we did, also brownies. It is an almost absurdly heartwarming film and I plan to bring it to this week's Movie Night with Alison. We finished Tinker, Tailor, which remains some of the best television I have seen; we watched some episodes of Shaun the Sheep (2007) and The Supersizers . . . (2008). We never got around to making an apple pie, but there is all the rest of the fall.

My poem "Scythe-Walk," written for [livejournal.com profile] teenybuffalo on the occasion of her purchasing a scythe from a jumble sale, was accepted by Mythic Delirium.

Rush left this morning. It was a good visit.

I'm not unhappy right now.

[identity profile] ladymondegreen.livejournal.com 2011-09-13 10:48 pm (UTC)(link)
Happy anniversary to you and Rush. I am glad there was no funeral this time, and that there was instead much joy.

Also, congratulations on selling the poem you wrote for [livejournal.com profile] teenybuffalo. I'm looking forward to seeing that one.

[identity profile] ap-aelfwine.livejournal.com 2011-09-13 11:09 pm (UTC)(link)
I'm glad ye had a good visit.
Congratulations on the acceptance!
And I'm happy that you're not unhappy.

[identity profile] snowy-owlet.livejournal.com 2011-09-13 11:21 pm (UTC)(link)
Dear Trouble Lady:

Please keep an eye on your LJ message box. Soon it will contain the poem you requested.

Fondly,

Owlet

[identity profile] handful-ofdust.livejournal.com 2011-09-13 11:46 pm (UTC)(link)
Sounds like a great time. I'll be sending you The Last Pale Light very soon, once I've uploaded it all to Box.net.

[identity profile] schreibergasse.livejournal.com 2011-09-13 11:58 pm (UTC)(link)
Yay good weekend!
gwynnega: (John Hurt Raskolnikov 2)

[personal profile] gwynnega 2011-09-14 12:10 am (UTC)(link)
Sounds like a marvelous weekend! And any weekend that includes both The Haunting of Hill House and The Blank Generation has to be a good one.

Congrats on the poem sale!

But do they have devil bees?

[identity profile] cucumberseed.livejournal.com 2011-09-14 01:17 am (UTC)(link)
I felt better afterward. That hasn't happened a lot lately.

I'm glad to hear it, even if it is rare.

we found a spray-painted graffito of a wolf eating the sun

I could be persuaded to bet that was left there for you.

Congratulations on "Scythe Walk;" I believe the day you write a poem I don't love will be the day the wolf does swallow the sun.

Re: But do they have devil bees?

[identity profile] cucumberseed.livejournal.com 2011-09-14 01:18 am (UTC)(link)
I'm not unhappy right now.

That's the best of all.

[identity profile] timesygn.livejournal.com 2011-09-14 01:30 am (UTC)(link)

Happy anniversary. Next time you are in BC, do not neglect to come visit or the sheep will never forgive you.

[identity profile] teenybuffalo.livejournal.com 2011-09-14 02:13 am (UTC)(link)
I'm delighted to know it. And let me be the ninth to congratulate you on the poem's sale!

[identity profile] nineweaving.livejournal.com 2011-09-14 02:59 am (UTC)(link)
Mah'velous party. The happiest of anniversaries.

Nine

[identity profile] nineweaving.livejournal.com 2011-09-14 06:50 am (UTC)(link)
Summer Wars is lovely.

Nine

Re: But do they have devil bees?

[identity profile] schreibergasse.livejournal.com 2011-09-14 12:38 pm (UTC)(link)
we found a spray-painted graffito of a wolf eating the sun

Or perhaps a Digger-obsessed street artist?

[identity profile] strange-selkie.livejournal.com 2011-09-14 04:00 pm (UTC)(link)
I am still alive. I thought I would leave that here as my own wolf swallowing the sun.

Mostly, I am so, so, so happy that you got a weekend to recharge your spirit and heal your heart a little.

[identity profile] tithenai.livejournal.com 2011-09-14 04:21 pm (UTC)(link)
Mmmm avocado blossom! I have some avocados ripening in a bowl at present. Thank you for thinking of me!

By the way -- are you familiar with Virginia Lee's artwork? I ask because I very briefly met her a few weeks ago and was gobsmacked by how much she looks like and generally reminded me of you.

[identity profile] strange-selkie.livejournal.com 2011-09-14 04:33 pm (UTC)(link)
I left the office this morning with two prescriptions that will fell lesser mortals. Muhahaha.

[identity profile] strange-selkie.livejournal.com 2011-09-14 04:34 pm (UTC)(link)
Have you ever had meadowfoam honey? It tastes like marshmallows. The Honey People sell it at Pennsic and such places, in excruciatingly small jars, and its highest purpose aside from eating straight is on buttered white toast.

[identity profile] tithenai.livejournal.com 2011-09-14 04:36 pm (UTC)(link)
Meadowfoam? That ... Sounds so beautiful ... I have never even heard of it! Ach, so many honeys! So little mastery of space/time!

[identity profile] strange-selkie.livejournal.com 2011-09-14 04:38 pm (UTC)(link)
http://www.beefolks.com/shopdisplayproducts.asp?id=53&cat=Meadowfoam+Honey&gclid=COOcqPqVnasCFc9n5QodHQxTkQ Sorry, it's Bee Folks, not Honey People. But. Yes. We buy a tiny jar and nurse it through the year until the next Renn Faire.

[identity profile] snowy-owlet.livejournal.com 2011-09-14 05:24 pm (UTC)(link)
Woohoo! Thank you!

[identity profile] cucumberseed.livejournal.com 2011-09-14 05:47 pm (UTC)(link)
Egad! That wasn't a dare!

Then again... The curiosity does make me wonder...

[identity profile] asakiyume.livejournal.com 2011-09-14 06:42 pm (UTC)(link)
it has a way of burning through the jars

--excellent :-)

[identity profile] asakiyume.livejournal.com 2011-09-14 06:45 pm (UTC)(link)
Here's a test--you could go back with a camera to capture that graffito and see if it's still there.

(I'd love to see it.)

Yay for "Scythe-Walk," and for a pleasant day with [livejournal.com profile] rushthatspeaks.