Normative cultural myth my ass, I'm talking about laws that don't recognize their right to make medical decisions in extremis, share property or, should they wish it, parent nonbiological children. While I appreciate the depth and thoughtfulness of your comment and respect all your points, I wasn't tilting at windmills. I am not concerned by the figurative bully next door. I worry about the accidental fall off a ladder that leads to a hospital emergency room where one of them has no rights.