I've checked more CDs, but still can't find it. Maybe I'm remembering hearing somebody sing it live--Catherine Crowe, who always comes to Catskills Irish Arts Week, has spent a lot of time in the Canadian folklore archives and has some very unusual versions of songs--but I could swear I remember it being on a CD.

I'm remembering a last verse with something like "he has made her a ship's commander/sailing out of the isle of Man".

Any road, I'll keep on looking.