Yes, I know what you mean -- it's that thing of treating details of sexual preferences, whether it's Fay's "fetishes" or Marq's thing for bitten fingernails/claws in Stars In My Pocket Like Grains Of Sand, with seriousness and weight, as something important, and -- I am struggling for the right words here, but something like "existentially valuable", maybe?
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Yes, I know what you mean -- it's that thing of treating details of sexual preferences, whether it's Fay's "fetishes" or Marq's thing for bitten fingernails/claws in Stars In My Pocket Like Grains Of Sand, with seriousness and weight, as something important, and -- I am struggling for the right words here, but something like "existentially valuable", maybe?