People who feel they have permission to be awful sure can be eager to be awful.

I find it distressing and confusing in the way that frustrates me to try to describe, because I don't mean it disingenuously, I am well aware of the reality of the behavior, I have been on the receiving end of it personally and it shapes the sociopolitical climate in which I have to survive; it is not that important to my personal cosmology to have someone to hate.